When you sense ego in someone it is better to escape than to continue a close relationship, unless you are powerful enough to be able to transform himinto a selfless person. If you continue a close relationship with an egotistical person, he will misuse your body, your time, your energy, your position, and your beauty. To such an egotistical person you have no value beyond feeding his ego. When you stop feeding his ego, he may consider you worthless and discard you. If you are not strong enough to clean his egowith your love, it is better to escape. Sometimes escape is the most intelligent thing to do because if the ego is stronger than your power to clean it, you will be dominated and enslaved. . . .
Only you can decide what is the best action to take in your own relationship. If you see hope in your spouse, if you see a great jewel that will someday shine, it is worth the sacrifice. But if it is a hopeless case, sometimes it is better to prepare yourself for the possibility that the relationship will end.
-Torkom Saraydarian, Sex Family and the Woman in Society
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