Children can be led to self-esteem by arranging such works for them that they can do and feel proud. The works given to them must be equal to their ability. Children can also be given disciplines and exercises that they can accomplish and feel proud of what they did. Children can be given opportunities to cultivate and to achieve virtues and to feel proud of themselves. From the beginning they will understand that they must cultivate a service or attain something in order to feel proud of themselves.
There are parents who try to cultivate self-esteem in children who are full of inertia or of destructive activities. If we pump self-esteem into those who do not demonstrate values, we encourage them to be what they are and they never try to improve.
..........With children we can start with a small dosage , making them to do something and feel proud, and make them see the first steps of their achievements.
-Torkom Saraydarian, Transformation
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